Prepare Your Home For Guests

26 October, 2020

As football season enters full swing, watch parties will also start to kick into high gear. Not to mention fall is the start of the holiday season, with Oktoberfest and Halloween parties, Friendsgiving and beyond. Entertaining in your home can be a mixed bag — a rollercoaster of emotions that starts as soon as you decide to hold a gathering. Whether you are a seasoned party hosting vet or a newbie, these tips are for you.

Keep Time On Your Side

When you decide to host a party, look realistically at your schedule. Deciding over wine night a week before is not the best use of time. To decrease your stress level leading up to the event, give yourself around three weeks. This means you'll have several weekends to collect RSVPs, plan shopping trips, decide on décor, and clean your space. You never know what might pop up throughout your week — padding your planning period with extra time can only help.

Don't Budge On Your Budget

Take a hard look at your finances and decide what you can afford. Factor in what you are willing to pay for — drinks, food, decorations, extra seating, disposable plates and silverware, and so on. You can also add a BYO element to your gathering: a stock-the-bar party is a fun way to crowdsource liquor, while a potluck can do the same for food. Even with contributions, as the host you should be prepared to provide these items. Follow the one pound rule — one lb. of food per guest, including appetizers, mains, and sides, but excluding drinks.

Activate An Activity

Mingling can sometimes be mind-numbing, so create a game or event within the party to keep morale high. This could be as elaborate as a murder mystery or as simple as cornhole. Think of ways to help different groups of people come together and create memories — a trivia session, an eye-spy around the house, or a friendly competition can all help the rest of the event flow smoothly and create connections between strangers and friends alike.

Go With The Flow

Try not to be too rigid once your party begins. Stray away from set schedules and allow the party to develop naturally. People may be hungrier or arrive later than planned — don't stress about the little details. If you run out of ice, don't melt down. Delivery services can save the day for small inconveniences. Your ability to read the room will be particularly important to the overall vibe of your gathering.

These tips will help you grow into the Martha Stewart-esque host you've always dreamed of being. No party problem is unsolvable and no guest goes home unhappy. Remember to have fun — this event is about enjoying your guests, opening your home, and creating happy memories.